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Глава 2. О желании
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2. Neil Strauss, The Game: Undercover in the Secret Society of Pickup Artists (Canongate, 2005), p. 63.
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4. Strauss, The Game, p. 95.
5. Chanel Miller, Know My Name, p. 90.
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10. Cited in Thomas Maier, Masters of Sex: The Life and Times of William Masters and Virginia Johnson, The Couple who Taught America How to Love (Basic Books, 2009), p. 173.
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