With insight and wit, Cindy Zelman mines her own experience of contemporary lesbian life and excavates gems of humor - some familiar, others thankfully rare. A lively read. -Bridget Bufford (not the S&M Bridget you will find in the pages of this book.) Author of Minus One: A Twelve-Step Journey and Cemetery Bird. Cindy Zelman's painfully honest essays in this collection effortlessly and consistently make such earnest sadness and loneliness palatable thanks to heaping doses of self-deprecation and wry humor-a real find. -David Yoo, author of The Choke Artist.