In BrainStyles for Lovers, partners will be shown how to focus on natural gifts to interact in stressful and critical turning points without trying to change the other. The BrainStyles System (R) has been updated with the latest brain and genetic research. Apply hard-edged knowledge about how we think with respect, timing, and compassion in the most challenging and intimate arenas. Prevent fights and stress with 18 Charts and easy to apply BrainStyle Clues. Learn how to Improve yourself by being more yourself. Those who have engaged with The BrainStyles System have experienced transformations in their lives by becoming aware of the most intimate thing you do as a human: Think. To improve yourself, be more yourself. To create a spiritual relationship, stop trying to change yourself or your lover.